Understanding Your Patterns: Assessment & Therapy for Personality Functioning
Comprehensive psychological services for adults struggling with unstable relationships, unclear sense of self, emotional intensity, and difficulty maintaining life goals.
Here's what I see often: people have been dealing with symptoms for years—sometimes since adolescence or early adulthood. They've tried therapy multiple times, maybe several medications. Things get somewhat better, but never quite resolve. Common patterns emerge: feeling like you never perform to the level you should or could, struggling to maintain consistency when things change around you, relationship difficulties, emotional intensity, confusion about who you are or what direction to take.
When mental health symptoms span years with only partial response to standard treatments, it often signals that something's being missed in the formulation. Frequently, that's personality functioning—how you experience yourself, pursue goals, understand others, and maintain relationships across different contexts.
That's where comprehensive assessment comes in. I use evidence-based diagnostic testing to clarify what's actually driving chronic patterns—so treatment can finally target the right things.
I'm a clinical psychologist specializing in assessment and therapy for adults with complex, longstanding presentations, particularly those involving personality functioning challenges (chronic pervasive distressing and impairing difficulties with self-esteem, self-direction, intimacy and empathy). I work with people across California who want diagnostic clarity before (or during) treatment.
What Assessment Clarifies
Structured evaluation using clinical interviews, validated testing, and careful observation to clarify your diagnosis and understand what's keeping symptoms in place.
You'll receive:
A written diagnostic report with a clear clinical formulation
Specific treatment recommendations you can use with any provider
A feedback session where we can discuss everything thoroughly
Assessment can clarify:
Mood disorders (depression, bipolar spectrum)
Anxiety and trauma responses (PTSD, complex trauma)
ADHD and neurodevelopmental patterns
Personality functioning: how you experience yourself, pursue goals, understand others, and maintain relationships
Emotional dysregulation and intensity
Why previous treatment might not have worked
Timeline: Multiple testing sessions over several weeks
Note on fees: I'm out-of-network with insurance, but I use Mentaya to help clients submit claims automatically and get reimbursed. Most clients get 62% back on therapy. You can check your exact benefits using the Mentaya widget on my Fees & Policies page.
Your Assessment Results
Start treatment with clarity - Give your provider a comprehensive formulation from day one
Improve current treatment - Help your existing provider understand what's been missing
Get appropriate referrals - Know exactly what kind of specialist or treatment you need
Make informed decisions - Understand whether medication, DBT, trauma work, or other approaches make sense
Advocate for yourself - Have documentation for accommodations, disability, or treatment planning
Many clients complete assessment with me and then use the results to guide their treatment decisions. Some find new providers. Others use results with their current providers or to find specialized care elsewhere.
This Approach Might Be a Good Fit If
You feel like you never quite perform to the level you should or could—across work, relationships, hobbies, and daily life
You struggle to maintain consistent performance and are really impacted when things change in your context or environment
You've been dealing with mental health symptoms for years—maybe since adolescence or early adulthood—with only partial relief
Treatment helps for a while, but the same patterns keep returning
You've tried multiple therapists or medications with limited lasting success
You experience recurring relationship difficulties or emotional intensity that disrupts your life
You've been in treatment before and it helped some, but not enough
You've gotten different diagnoses from different providers over the years
Your symptoms don't seem to fit neatly into one category
You struggle with an unstable sense of who you are
You have difficulty maintaining close relationships or keep repeating the same relationship patterns
You self-sabotage when pursuing important goals
You'd rather have a roadmap before committing to long-term treatment
You want to help your providers understand you better
You're choosing between treatment options and need clarity first
This probably isn't the right fit if:
You're in crisis and need immediate support (I don't provide emergency services)
You need forensic or legal evaluation
What Happens Next
Some people use their assessment to:
Find a provider who specializes in their specific diagnosis (like DBT for emotion regulation, trauma-focused treatment, or mentalization-based therapy for personality patterns)
Return to their current provider with new information
Pursue medication evaluation with clearer diagnostic information
Access specialized programs (DBT, trauma treatment, personality-focused therapy)
Get workplace or academic accommodations
Simply understand themselves better
For select clients, I also offer specialized therapy when assessment reveals they would benefit from treatments I provide, including mentalization-based approaches for personality functioning (problems with self-esteem, self-direction, intimacy and empathy), DBT-informed treatment for emotion dysregulation, exposure-based CBT for anxiety, and evidence-based trauma treatment.
I provide referrals and recommendations based on your results. You take the results and use them however makes sense for your situation.